Is there a difference between aloneness and loneliness? Yes, there is. Aloneness is to be self-contained, and not in-need of another. And to be alone doesn't mean loneliness. Loneliness takes place when you feel that everyone's with everyone and why are you left out? But why feel lonely when you can feel alone? Aloneness doesn't mean you can't be with another. You can, but it just means you are not in need of another. You know yourself better by knowing another. Being alone is a beauty. Have you ever stand in the crowd and still feel "lonely"? Yes, from one point of view, it is loneliness. But you could've closed your eyes and listen carefully to your surrounding and you will hear the birds singing, a clock ticking, and you can differenciate different kinds of footsteps made by different kinds of shoes. You can open your eyes and pay attention to every small details around you. And that is a beauty. That is aloneness. Real loves do happen, and that is when you can achieve aloneness, when you are not in need of another. Can you? Aloneness and loneliness, they are so close yet so different. Feel alone, not lonely. =)
headache, headache, headache... =/
~Kaze
hmmm, so how was that train ride?
hahaha. =P
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